Top 10 Rules for the Best Birthday Party Ever!

Birthday Party Rule #1: 

Remember the reason you’re having a Birthday Party is to make your child feel special, and to give your child and his friends a very special memory to last a lifetime.  Plan activities that will maximize fun, and minimize aggravation.

Birthday Party Rule #2: 

Determine how much time and energy you have this year and scale things down so they are manageable and affordable.  Ask for help from your guests,  family members, or even hire an extra hand to clean up, or prepare if it might be helpful.

Birthday Party Rule #3:

Plan activities carefully but allow for children’s natural spontaneity and ability to have fun in a safe environment. Expect some guests to arrive late and have snacks and refreshments on hand for their arrival.  The first half hour of the party should not be too structured while the time allowed for food and gift giving should be planned carefully so neither feels rushed or diminished.

Birthday Party Rule #4:

Order cake and food in advance, and stock up on soda and other staples a week earlier so you can concentrate on non-food details as the party approaches.

Birthday Party Rule #5:
  Plan a few back up activities, in case one belly flops, and if one activity seems to be popular consider letting it continue, perhaps bumping another.

  The best activities are cooperative vs. competitive.

Birthday Party Rule #6:   Avoid any small items that might cause injury or choking for preschoolers. Check the labeling/ask advice from clerks. Assign someone to remain in each room or area to monitor activities.  Ask parents who will be picking a child up? if they are not attending themselves.

Birthday Party Rule #7:

Let someone else to be in charge of the photography or videotaping and be sure to have them check the camera’s battery & memory card beforehand! Consider getting photos or video copied to a dvd so you can send out copies to family members and friends.

Birthday Party Rule #8: 

Don’t make the party too long.  Most children can only handle 1.5 to 2 hours of noise and excitement without some fraying around the edges.  Make sure the birthday child gets plenty of sleep the night before and a nap if necessary before the party begins.

Birthday Party Rule #9: 

Mind the Manners!  Birthday parties are a great opportunity to teach manners and respect for other people to your child.  Discuss beforehand how to handle awkward situations that might come up while opening gifts and other activities as well. Teach them to be inclusive and respectful to all party guests.

Birthday Party Rule #10: 

Keep It Simple and Relaxed! (K.I.S.S.A.R?)  Don’t sweat the details and keep your sense of humor close on hand at all times.  And remember to Enjoy yourself!